My fiance saw people make fun of the smell and admited it!!
Feb 9, 2015 4:44:00 GMT
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Post by mona on Feb 9, 2015 4:44:00 GMT
For lunch me and my fiance made ourselves grilled cheese sandwhiches with ham :-)
They were very good and we really liked them BUT I have noticed cheese gives me gas. Lately, I've been getting lots of gas when I eat dairy. I suspect I need probioitcs and digestive enzymes based on how rancid the post dairy gas is.
Anyways, 5 hours after I had the grilled cheese we head to the convinience store to get some snacks :-)
I know Spanish and I see a woman my age (im in my late 20s) walk in with two teenagers (a boy n a girl) and as soon as she enters she loudly yells in spanish "SON OF A MOTHER F-ING BIACHHHHHHHHHH!!!" IN a joking kinda voice, and as they walk past us they look at me up and down with distain and disgust and scoff at me.
I just laughed because I know spanish and I told myself they didn't mean anything by it. I actually avoided eye contact. NEXT TIME THEY WONT BE SO LUCKY! Me and my fiance are REGULARS there and if I am harrassed in anyways I WILL INVOLVE THE AUTHORITIES. POINT BLANK :-)
Anyways, my fiance is Native American and was convinced that these people had scoffed at us and made fun of us despite my fiance not speaking any Spanish. Therefore i was able to conclude that the abusive bullying was so obvious that even my fiance noticed it.
But the part that touched my little heart was my fiances response, which was:
"I dont know what their problem was but if I a hot head like I used to be in my early 20s I would have kicked all of their a**es! Who are THEY to treat us like that! No ones going to do that to MY GIRLFRIEND! "
Hehe, although my fiance thought they were discriminating against me because of my race or because of what I was wearing (I left the house in old pijamas and house shoes) and didnt admit that it was most likely because of the smell, I knew my fiance Knew it was probably the smell and was read to defend me.
I have never been prouder and it got me to thinking…
WHY IS IT THAT WE LET THINGS LIKE THESE SLIDE?
WHY IS IT THAT WE DONT SPEAK UP FOR OURSELVES, ESPECIALLY WHEN PEOPLE WE DONT KNOW AND WILL PROBABLY NEVER SEE AGAIN ARR BULLYING US?
I THINK ITS TIME WE TRAIN OURSELVES TO HAVE A WARRIOR MIND SET AND LEARN TO FIGHT FOR OURSELVES BECAUSE OTHER CAN SENSE WHEN YOU DONT REALLY VALUE YOURSELF AND SENSE WHEN YOU CARRY YOURSELF WITH A SHY AND MEEK PERSONALITY……
AND UNFORTUNATELY our society teaches people to PREY on the weak.
I recall a time when my over weight friend in high school told me she dislikes doing anything alone. I realized later on that this came from a fear she had of being bullied by strangers because of ger weight.
I rememeber her telling me a stort of how she has once gotten on a bus and hear people openly mock her and laugh at her because she is plus sized. She had done nothing WRONG. She is and was a shy polite girl who kept to herself and didnt start trouble. She was very clean and didn't smell, she is/was smart and kind yet these qualities made her seem weak to these various strangers.
My fiance pointed out something tonight, quote "These people, what they did was wrong and the reason they do it is because they've never had anyone *kick their a--* for doing what they are doing. If they had they wouldn't go around doing it because they'd know better".
I agreed! Usually I would disagree with this type of ideas but this time I sort of understood what my fiance eas saying. Which was these people needed to learn a lesson but STAYING SILENT AND BEING QUIET AND LOOKING AWAY AS WE ARE MOCKED AND LAUGHED AT ISNT THE WAY!
WE NEED TO STAND UP FOR OURSELVES.
I WOULDNT RECOMMEND BEATING ANYONE UP OR FIGHTING BUT DEFINITELY CONFRONTING PEOPLE IS KEY!!!!
IF they give u a look then you should look right back at them and observe the person until they are done and do all you can to make it clear to them that you KNOW what they are doing.
I cant stress this enough!
Please lets be proactive and show them that we DO NOTICE WE CAN HEAR AND WE HAVE FEELINGS!
Just think about how many peoples eyes and behaviors we can change if ALL PF US CONFRONT OUR ACCUSERS WITH A STARE???!!!
And remember dont be afraid to SPEAK UP!
If you are a regular somewhere and feel someone is harrassing you, BRING IT TO THE OWNERS ATTENTION!!!
IF PEOPLE ARE GATHERING OUTSIDE YOUR APARTMENT, HOME, OR PLACE OF WORK
… ..CALL THE POLICE AND FILE A NOISE COMPLAIN, A LOITERING COMPLAIN
BELIEVE ME, Once you start citing harrassment and loitering/noise complaints people wont mess with you.
But in case they still do, at least you will have a record of it.
The convinience store knows us BY NAME and buys and stocks the poducts WE LIKE! THATS HOW MUCH THEY LOVE OUR SERVICE AND WE SPEND A LOT THERE. If this happens again I will be complaining, and if the store owner doesnt want to do anything or say anything to them then we WONT BE RETURNING! AND THEY WILL NOT GET OUR BUSINESS ANYMORE :-)
And thats that :-D
They were very good and we really liked them BUT I have noticed cheese gives me gas. Lately, I've been getting lots of gas when I eat dairy. I suspect I need probioitcs and digestive enzymes based on how rancid the post dairy gas is.
Anyways, 5 hours after I had the grilled cheese we head to the convinience store to get some snacks :-)
I know Spanish and I see a woman my age (im in my late 20s) walk in with two teenagers (a boy n a girl) and as soon as she enters she loudly yells in spanish "SON OF A MOTHER F-ING BIACHHHHHHHHHH!!!" IN a joking kinda voice, and as they walk past us they look at me up and down with distain and disgust and scoff at me.
I just laughed because I know spanish and I told myself they didn't mean anything by it. I actually avoided eye contact. NEXT TIME THEY WONT BE SO LUCKY! Me and my fiance are REGULARS there and if I am harrassed in anyways I WILL INVOLVE THE AUTHORITIES. POINT BLANK :-)
Anyways, my fiance is Native American and was convinced that these people had scoffed at us and made fun of us despite my fiance not speaking any Spanish. Therefore i was able to conclude that the abusive bullying was so obvious that even my fiance noticed it.
But the part that touched my little heart was my fiances response, which was:
"I dont know what their problem was but if I a hot head like I used to be in my early 20s I would have kicked all of their a**es! Who are THEY to treat us like that! No ones going to do that to MY GIRLFRIEND! "
Hehe, although my fiance thought they were discriminating against me because of my race or because of what I was wearing (I left the house in old pijamas and house shoes) and didnt admit that it was most likely because of the smell, I knew my fiance Knew it was probably the smell and was read to defend me.
I have never been prouder and it got me to thinking…
WHY IS IT THAT WE LET THINGS LIKE THESE SLIDE?
WHY IS IT THAT WE DONT SPEAK UP FOR OURSELVES, ESPECIALLY WHEN PEOPLE WE DONT KNOW AND WILL PROBABLY NEVER SEE AGAIN ARR BULLYING US?
I THINK ITS TIME WE TRAIN OURSELVES TO HAVE A WARRIOR MIND SET AND LEARN TO FIGHT FOR OURSELVES BECAUSE OTHER CAN SENSE WHEN YOU DONT REALLY VALUE YOURSELF AND SENSE WHEN YOU CARRY YOURSELF WITH A SHY AND MEEK PERSONALITY……
AND UNFORTUNATELY our society teaches people to PREY on the weak.
I recall a time when my over weight friend in high school told me she dislikes doing anything alone. I realized later on that this came from a fear she had of being bullied by strangers because of ger weight.
I rememeber her telling me a stort of how she has once gotten on a bus and hear people openly mock her and laugh at her because she is plus sized. She had done nothing WRONG. She is and was a shy polite girl who kept to herself and didnt start trouble. She was very clean and didn't smell, she is/was smart and kind yet these qualities made her seem weak to these various strangers.
My fiance pointed out something tonight, quote "These people, what they did was wrong and the reason they do it is because they've never had anyone *kick their a--* for doing what they are doing. If they had they wouldn't go around doing it because they'd know better".
I agreed! Usually I would disagree with this type of ideas but this time I sort of understood what my fiance eas saying. Which was these people needed to learn a lesson but STAYING SILENT AND BEING QUIET AND LOOKING AWAY AS WE ARE MOCKED AND LAUGHED AT ISNT THE WAY!
WE NEED TO STAND UP FOR OURSELVES.
I WOULDNT RECOMMEND BEATING ANYONE UP OR FIGHTING BUT DEFINITELY CONFRONTING PEOPLE IS KEY!!!!
IF they give u a look then you should look right back at them and observe the person until they are done and do all you can to make it clear to them that you KNOW what they are doing.
I cant stress this enough!
Please lets be proactive and show them that we DO NOTICE WE CAN HEAR AND WE HAVE FEELINGS!
Just think about how many peoples eyes and behaviors we can change if ALL PF US CONFRONT OUR ACCUSERS WITH A STARE???!!!
And remember dont be afraid to SPEAK UP!
If you are a regular somewhere and feel someone is harrassing you, BRING IT TO THE OWNERS ATTENTION!!!
IF PEOPLE ARE GATHERING OUTSIDE YOUR APARTMENT, HOME, OR PLACE OF WORK
… ..CALL THE POLICE AND FILE A NOISE COMPLAIN, A LOITERING COMPLAIN
BELIEVE ME, Once you start citing harrassment and loitering/noise complaints people wont mess with you.
But in case they still do, at least you will have a record of it.
The convinience store knows us BY NAME and buys and stocks the poducts WE LIKE! THATS HOW MUCH THEY LOVE OUR SERVICE AND WE SPEND A LOT THERE. If this happens again I will be complaining, and if the store owner doesnt want to do anything or say anything to them then we WONT BE RETURNING! AND THEY WILL NOT GET OUR BUSINESS ANYMORE :-)
And thats that :-D