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Post by honeybear on Jun 30, 2013 6:23:26 GMT
Or wanting to date? And I mean each other! If we are being so unsuccesful in the outside world why not just throw caution in the wind and go for it? If it doesn't work out, at the very least we can't say we didn't try, right? Look around the site, see if you can't find someone who's compatible enough and just do it! Don't sit there and analyze it to death, just go for it!
I'm available.
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Post by honeybear on Jul 6, 2013 22:58:27 GMT
I put this post up about a week or so ago and no one has replied to it!  That's ok with me.  It's your choice. I, on the other hand, have lots of guys interested in me, but they are "normal" people and I'm a little "concerned" about having to go out with them. I would much prefer to date someone who is just like me, smelly. But these guys who asks me out, don't seem to notice or don't seem to mind the smell! For the past four days, I have been smelling like rotten eggs to the point that I smell me! And you know what they say, If you can smell yourself, then you are ten times more offensive to someone else!!!! Still, the guys come around! Just today, I had someone else ask me out! Of course, I made up some excuse and turned him down, but I'm beginning to wonder, 'should I go this route'? It's looking like that's probably what I'm going to have end up doing. Well, I guess I will get up the nerve and pick the one that has had his eye on me for quite some time now. He's gorgeous. In all truth, I can't hardly believe someone like him would be interested in someone like me who smells? The man could have anyone and yet, he's got his sights set on me! Go figure! Well, wish me luck! |
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Post by sjkdj on Jul 7, 2013 17:35:02 GMT
Good luck don't be so hard on yourself and give yourself a chance.
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Post by samboy on Jul 7, 2013 18:38:41 GMT
Looks like a challenge to get people off their computer chairs and start meeting other fellow sufferers (even for non-dating purposes). I know I'm like that at times.
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Post by goodfella on Jul 13, 2013 3:34:09 GMT
i am not member of this site but i rarely visit sometimes. i think dating is the most difficult for bb bo sufferers, the worst is when you are dating with some one who has no idea about your problem. i have dated with so many non bb girls but trust me i never had the confidence to behave normal when i am around them, I always think about how do i smell ? did she noticed my bb ? .............. i believe suffers can have good relationships how ever there is geographic related constraints, there is few of us in every country and those few most of them do not know each an other let alone dating. coming to the conclusion may i ask you which part of the world do you live in ?
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Post by honeybear on Jul 18, 2013 0:55:46 GMT
Yes, I'm in Texas, USA.
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Post by Goodfella on Jul 28, 2013 3:30:36 GMT
I live in UK distance problem as I said !
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Post by idontknow123 on Dec 20, 2013 16:52:33 GMT
it's so hard when guys are interested in you. I usually turn them down because i'd rather that, than have to go through any embarrassment I might be put through, being suggest to take showers with him or get subtle hints or ask if I have hygiene problems and indirectly get told that I smell sooooo bad. yeah, i'd rather say no from the start and save myself the pain...
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Post by zavier on Dec 21, 2013 2:09:49 GMT
I completely understand where you are coming from.
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Post by wsander1 on Mar 26, 2014 5:05:27 GMT
its good to see that im not the only one who has had dating issues because of the way i smell. ive had this problem right after i hit puberty. even when i showered ive had people tell me i smelled. i went through horrible teasing in school and bullying because of it too. my love life has completely suffered as result. im currently going to have myself tested for tmau or Bromhidrosis. this issue ive been having has cause me a great deal of depression social anxiety. and it may of contributed to my mental illness i suffer with as well. or fed into it. i live a vvery isolated life i dont go out much at all. because of the issue. but since ive been treated for my mental illness and am on medication for it. ive been trying real hard to reach out to others that not only have the b.o. problem but as well the mental illness problems as well. im really trying hard to get better and find like minded people who knows what im going through. im eager to meet new people but new people who suffer with simular to mine. im tired of trying to meet people who dont understand what im going through i really want to meet others who suffer with the b.o. so i can finally feel accepted. and thats the key to help me get better mentally speaking. but i wanted to say i understand what your going through im definality going through it myself. i wish it would go away so i can live a normal life. but i know thats not always possible. im hoping when i see the dr. ill finally get answers to what this is. so i can accept it and move foward and meet the kinds of people that suffer too. i hate feeling like a outcast i hate feeling like i dont belong. im hoping i can find my place somday when i find the answers. you all are very contagious for sharing.
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Post by wsander1 on Mar 26, 2014 5:10:46 GMT
i meant couragious not contagious
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Post by Mark on Mar 27, 2014 2:14:32 GMT
lol, nice Freudian slip there.
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That's ok with me.
It's your choice.
