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Post by flyflyfly on Sept 15, 2011 3:56:09 GMT
A true friend who has accepted who you are and not by the way you smell?
I've been looking around and have been rejected by many people countless times, even nice people.
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Post by possiblehelp on Sept 15, 2011 10:57:59 GMT
How long have you been having this problem? You never had any friends? I understand that it's hard you'll probably gain some more friends. Although you think you probably stink all the time, you might not stink all of the time. I think my odor gets bad around my menstrual cycle, so I think mines is hormonal? I still have friends, and it pisses me off that they don't believe me when I say I smell bad at times, it makes my feel like I'm losing my mind, but yes I still have friends. I have 5 best friends but its sort of a bad thing because their all always inviting me to things knowing I have social anxiety. I really don't know where I stand with my odor problem. I don't know how bad I smell around that time of the month, but I have seen people cover their noses around me. I hate this problem because you can't tell how offensive the odor is. Another bad thing is I have a cousin around the same age as me and she's always inviting me to party's and I told her I hate going out in the public and she told me that I'm nuts. My friends don't believe me, my family doesn't believe me, and my managers don't believe me but I know I have an odor problem. Have you been told what you smell like? Sorry I made this comment so long but I really feel what you're going through, all I can say is it will get better man. Keep your head up, I know its hard but maybe one day they will find a great way to treat this problem.
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Post by flyflyfly on Sept 23, 2011 13:57:19 GMT
I think you shouldn't let the smell affect you. You are really lucky to have friends around you and you have no idea how jealous I am everytime I see people together and enjoying each other's company. Just go for it! Some of us, like me, don't even have the chance of being invited to parties and what have you.
If you think it's PMS that's making you smell, head down to the doctor, maybe it's vagina odor or a fungi infection which can be cured with medicine or a medical wash.
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Post by shesmells on Sept 27, 2011 22:02:31 GMT
Yes. In college there was a girl that liked to be around me even when my BO was at it worse. Although we do not keep in close contact n-e more it was her kindness that always keep me going and I am entirely grateful to her for that. Even if you don't find a friend that you can see everyday plz remember you have the people here for friendship and support.
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Post by flyflyfly on Sept 28, 2011 13:18:05 GMT
Yes. In college there was a girl that liked to be around me even when my BO was at it worse. Although we do not keep in close contact n-e more it was her kindness that always keep me going and I am entirely grateful to her for that. Even if you don't find a friend that you can see everyday plz remember you have the people here for friendship and support. I have too! There were several classmates who didn't mind being around me, but we weren't really close (like BFF), after we graduated didn't even contact each other anymore. Although I really appreciate them accompanying me sometimes.
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