Post by cloud on Jul 2, 2016 20:49:36 GMT
Hi all, I'm joining in the hope of finding some ways of managing my odour problems. I'm 53 (today actually!) and menopausal, with recently-diagnosed diabetes type 2 and I'm currently under investigation for a large ovarian cyst and thickened lining of the womb. I'm also very overweight, a compulsive overeater and binge eater.
I know I have suffered with bad breath for a long time, but put it down to having dentist phobia and allowing some of my back teeth to become decayed and abscessed. Those have now been removed, so I thought I would finally be free of bad breath, but no... it's as bad as ever. I brush twice a day, use mouthwash, and I have started brushing several times during the day at work as well.
I normally can't smell my odours myself, so apart from the occasional person who was unable to hide their disgust, I know about it from the kids I've worked with since starting in educational support for teenagers, about 10 years ago. Kids generally can't hide their reactions to bad smells, and if that wasn't enough a particularly expressive youngster drew a picture of me in the back of her book with flies around my head and a speech bubble saying "I smell of fish" - I had occasionally noticed a fishy smell on myself but didn't realise it was so strong or persistent.
My doctor said she couldn't smell bad odour on me or my breath, and the practice nurse actually laughed when I told her about the fish odour. My dentist shrugged when I asked about possible treatment for bad breath and said nothing was particularly effective apart from good oral hygiene.
I'm getting a bit desperate now because at work my colleagues try to avoid sitting with me, some avoid talking to me and the kids of course laugh and comment quite a lot. I am socially isolated also, but I think that is more complex than just feeling rejected because of odours... I think I have some social awkwardness and anxieties that make me more comfortable alone. I don't feel sad about this, or lonely, I'm just including this as part of who I am for introduction purposes.
I remember being on a training course once with a woman whose breath made me feel ill. I have slowly come to the realisation that I am the same. Kids I work with turn their heads or cover their noses and mouths when I speak to them, not rudely or too obviously, but they just clearly can't stand the smell.
I know I have suffered with bad breath for a long time, but put it down to having dentist phobia and allowing some of my back teeth to become decayed and abscessed. Those have now been removed, so I thought I would finally be free of bad breath, but no... it's as bad as ever. I brush twice a day, use mouthwash, and I have started brushing several times during the day at work as well.
I normally can't smell my odours myself, so apart from the occasional person who was unable to hide their disgust, I know about it from the kids I've worked with since starting in educational support for teenagers, about 10 years ago. Kids generally can't hide their reactions to bad smells, and if that wasn't enough a particularly expressive youngster drew a picture of me in the back of her book with flies around my head and a speech bubble saying "I smell of fish" - I had occasionally noticed a fishy smell on myself but didn't realise it was so strong or persistent.
My doctor said she couldn't smell bad odour on me or my breath, and the practice nurse actually laughed when I told her about the fish odour. My dentist shrugged when I asked about possible treatment for bad breath and said nothing was particularly effective apart from good oral hygiene.
I'm getting a bit desperate now because at work my colleagues try to avoid sitting with me, some avoid talking to me and the kids of course laugh and comment quite a lot. I am socially isolated also, but I think that is more complex than just feeling rejected because of odours... I think I have some social awkwardness and anxieties that make me more comfortable alone. I don't feel sad about this, or lonely, I'm just including this as part of who I am for introduction purposes.
I remember being on a training course once with a woman whose breath made me feel ill. I have slowly come to the realisation that I am the same. Kids I work with turn their heads or cover their noses and mouths when I speak to them, not rudely or too obviously, but they just clearly can't stand the smell.