Tired of hearing the coughing/throat clearing/the comments?
Jan 22, 2015 19:36:41 GMT
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Post by mona on Jan 22, 2015 19:36:41 GMT
Recently, the wax build-up in my ears increased so much that it caused a good amount of temporary hearing loss.
Prior to this happening, I had a lot of ANGER, HATE FOR PEOPLE, NEGATIVITY, and UNHAPPY FEELINGS, ect.
I HATED being able to hear people negatively comment on my smell/odor and laugh at me outside my house (a man described this same experience in a non-bo/bb related post) and I kept wondering to myself what I could do about it? (The man was bullied so badly [with words, nothing physical and no threats of physical violence either] that he ended up LEAVING THE COUNTRY).
I was even determined to move out from where I live because my landlord was coughing a lot and is the type of majorly passive aggressive type who just sits around making noises all day long like coughing and slamming doors.
I had gotten to a point where I HATED HIM the most of ALL and hated anyone who coughed or laughed around me because I assumed it was about me.
BUT! Since the day my hearing started deminishing, you wouldn't BELIEVE how much more confident I am now. NOW that I can't hear anything anyone is saying I'm SO FREE.
It's great when you can't hear what people are saying. Because your confidence grows. Since reading what the man said about mean spirited people harrassing him outside his apartment when he didn't smell, I have realized that this is a form of BULLYING, and the best way to deal with a bully is by STARING RIGHT BACK AT THEM when they laugh. They will then realize that YOU KNOW WHATS GOING ON, and that you are NOT AFRAID of their tactics. That your confidence has grown and you are even ready to confront them face to face if it comes down to it.
Don't worry if these people make it "acceptable" to bully you. I.E. you confront them and everyone in the group agrees with eachother and even says to your face that "you smell" ect ect. THESE PEOPLE ARE ORGANIZED GANGS, WHO BULLY PEOPLE AS A FORM OF HOBBY OR EVEN A JOB.
Stand up to your accusers! Explain that you have a medical condition you can't control. More than likely they wont care and bully you to your face. WHY? Because they are MEAN SPIRITED and amuse themselves by bullying YOU.
SO END THEIR FUN by CONFRONTING THEM and telling them simply "I KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU ARE DOING, AND YOU WONT GET AWAY WITH THIS" and start legal action against these people.
Why am I saying this? Because these people if they are lauging outside your apartment or house are causing noise disturbances and loitering.
Know your rights and the law, and you will be able to rid yourself of these people.
I haven't done this yet. All I have done is stare down people (in a nice way! I pray and smile at them) who have been doing this. I feel these kinda people who are doing this NEED PRAYER and kindness. Whatever thing is wrong with them is obviously something that sorta also attacks them.
Remember that MOST BULLIES have their own problems and troubled past so be kind but if that doesn't work be ready to bring in the big guns (law enforcement)!
Prior to this happening, I had a lot of ANGER, HATE FOR PEOPLE, NEGATIVITY, and UNHAPPY FEELINGS, ect.
I HATED being able to hear people negatively comment on my smell/odor and laugh at me outside my house (a man described this same experience in a non-bo/bb related post) and I kept wondering to myself what I could do about it? (The man was bullied so badly [with words, nothing physical and no threats of physical violence either] that he ended up LEAVING THE COUNTRY).
I was even determined to move out from where I live because my landlord was coughing a lot and is the type of majorly passive aggressive type who just sits around making noises all day long like coughing and slamming doors.
I had gotten to a point where I HATED HIM the most of ALL and hated anyone who coughed or laughed around me because I assumed it was about me.
BUT! Since the day my hearing started deminishing, you wouldn't BELIEVE how much more confident I am now. NOW that I can't hear anything anyone is saying I'm SO FREE.
It's great when you can't hear what people are saying. Because your confidence grows. Since reading what the man said about mean spirited people harrassing him outside his apartment when he didn't smell, I have realized that this is a form of BULLYING, and the best way to deal with a bully is by STARING RIGHT BACK AT THEM when they laugh. They will then realize that YOU KNOW WHATS GOING ON, and that you are NOT AFRAID of their tactics. That your confidence has grown and you are even ready to confront them face to face if it comes down to it.
Don't worry if these people make it "acceptable" to bully you. I.E. you confront them and everyone in the group agrees with eachother and even says to your face that "you smell" ect ect. THESE PEOPLE ARE ORGANIZED GANGS, WHO BULLY PEOPLE AS A FORM OF HOBBY OR EVEN A JOB.
Stand up to your accusers! Explain that you have a medical condition you can't control. More than likely they wont care and bully you to your face. WHY? Because they are MEAN SPIRITED and amuse themselves by bullying YOU.
SO END THEIR FUN by CONFRONTING THEM and telling them simply "I KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU ARE DOING, AND YOU WONT GET AWAY WITH THIS" and start legal action against these people.
Why am I saying this? Because these people if they are lauging outside your apartment or house are causing noise disturbances and loitering.
Know your rights and the law, and you will be able to rid yourself of these people.
I haven't done this yet. All I have done is stare down people (in a nice way! I pray and smile at them) who have been doing this. I feel these kinda people who are doing this NEED PRAYER and kindness. Whatever thing is wrong with them is obviously something that sorta also attacks them.
Remember that MOST BULLIES have their own problems and troubled past so be kind but if that doesn't work be ready to bring in the big guns (law enforcement)!